After a while you learn the difference , subtle difference

between holding a hand and chaining a soul

And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning

And company doesn't always mean security

And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts

And presents aren't promises

And you begin to accept your defeats

with your head up and eyes ahead

with the grace of an adult , not the grief of a child

And you learn to build all your roads on today

because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans

And futures have a way of falling down in midflight

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much

So plant in your own garden and decorate your own soul

instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers

And you learn that you really can endure

that you are really strong

And you really do have worth!

-- Veronica A. Shoffstall